💍 Dating, Marriage, and God’s Will for Youth

In today’s world, dating is seen as normal and even necessary. But as Christian youth, it is important to ask: What does God want? Is dating really the best way to prepare for marriage? And how do we find the right life partner according to God’s will?

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1️⃣ Why Can Dating Be Risky?

• It is often based on emotions and attraction, not commitment.
• Entering relationships too early can lead to heartbreak and guilt.
• It exposes youth to unnecessary temptations—emotionally and physically.

“Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.” – Matthew 5:8

2️⃣ God’s Plan for Marriage

Marriage is a holy covenant designed by God. It is His gift – between one man and one woman, established in His will.

“That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.” – Genesis 2:24

3️⃣ Waiting for the Right Time

Youth should not rush into relationships. Wait for the right time and seek God’s direction for a life partner.

“There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.” – Ecclesiastes 3:1

4️⃣ How to Choose the Right Partner?

• Does the person love God and follow His Word?
• Is he or she spiritually mature and walking in purity?
• Does Christ reflect in their life?
• Do you share unity in faith and calling?

“Do not be yoked together with unbelievers.” – 2 Corinthians 6:14

5️⃣ Advice for Youth

• Avoid premature relationships – they often lead to pain and distraction.
• Pray for your future spouse and seek God’s will.
• Take guidance from your parents, pastor, or spiritual mentors.
• Remember: Marriage is not just about love or attraction, but a holy covenant.

🔚 Conclusion

Dear young friends, instead of rushing into dating, wait on God’s perfect will. Marriage is not something to take lightly—it is a holy calling. At the right time, God will bring the right person into your life. Until then, stay pure and focus on serving the Lord.

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.” – Proverbs 3:5-6